Hey Mollie,
I know i´m reeeeally late and i´m so sorry for that
May your life be the way you want it to be,
but don´t forget:
it´s all in YOUR hands, no matter what you do and don´t do,
you always have a choice (which doesn´t necessarily make life easier, I know)
here´s a proverb for you for this big step in life:
Take care of your thoughts, because they will turn into words.
Take care of your words, because they will turn into into action.
Take care of your actions, because they will turn into your character.
Take care of your character, because it will be your destiny.
Happy belated birthday, Mollie